rly pisses me off when people are like “the patriarchy oppresses men too :( think about the men :( they need feminism” like boo fucking hoo the system that men literally created is now backfiring against them, excuse me if i dont give a shit that your dad once said “big boys dont cry” cause women are out here getting murdered just for being women so
I am so done calling myself a member of the lgbt community. I’ve had all I can take from genderists. I’m now a member of the “same sex attracted” community and I’m not ever going back to the “community” where words have absolutely no meaning.
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Like??? I just can’t take it anymore? I can’t take the “mlm means male aligned person attracted to male aligned ppl uwu” any-fucking-more.
Y'all ready to become homosexual separatists in 2k19?
you should never date someone for the sake of dating someone. you should be good friends, if not best friends with your partner. if you cant go to your partner for personal advice, if youre afraid to call your partner out on something, if you cant laugh and have fun with your partner, or if your conversations are only ever performative affection, you don’t have a good relationship
I totally get that post about being tired of hanging out with women who have internalized misogyny but like I love telling my friends that they don’t need to wear makeup or that their body hair isn’t disgusting. Activism isn’t always grand scale. Interpersonal activism matters too. Female self love in a world destined to tear it down is radical. So spread some radical self love
If your apology involves degrading yourself, calling yourself shit or insulting yourself, its not an apology, try again.
Can someone translate this?
Don’t try to guilt people by saying “I’m sorry I fucking suck.” “I’m sorry I’m just the worst and I should die” Because thats not an apology, thats trying to guilt the other person into dropping the subject.
